可以再娶嗎？

如此看起來是不行的。

但是小弟也有一個問題，他犯罪時年紀小又有悔改，且又得到聖靈，還繼續在教會裡，萬一有姐妹喜歡他，嫁給他的問題比較嚴重，或是嫁給外邦比較嚴重？

當然可以，有人要嫁給你，你就可以結婚，所以不要在教會或這裡問：「可以再娶嗎？」因為答案都會因人而異，應該去問那位姊妹，「我可以娶妳嗎？」如果她不點頭，我們有一百個人說「可以」，有什麼用是不是？只是對象如果是主內的姊妹，你必須誠實的告訴她，你曾經犯下的錯，只要她願意接納你，在你內心也確實的向主認罪悔改，相信憐憫人的主會赦免的。

贊成bwnj

只要悔改後內心已經坦然.兩人都願意對神負責.就可以吧！否則他去娶外邦人.會更好嗎？

什麼是死罪，以致耶穌的寶血不能再洗淨他們的罪，神的氣息也無法使枯骨復活！

打從心底徹底否定耶穌不悔改，不行愛心與憐憫，驕傲說謊至死不改，與褻瀆聖靈者！

耶穌就直起腰來對他說：「...............耶穌說，我也不定你的罪，去罷，從此不要再犯

罪了。」－－這句話晝夜思想，刻印心版，真是會令人淚從心流，深感神愛有破穹蒼貫

日月之無限能力！

神對罪人最完整，最崇高，最大犧牲愛的訴說就是以－－－何西阿的婚姻來展示！

在耶羅波安的極盛時代，富裕的盛世中有許多偶像充斥，道德低落，窮人受欺壓，許多

不法的事。人們在婚姻方面不忠貞，不在耶和華面前信守聖約，但是神仍愛他們，有如

丈夫深愛著妻子不離不棄，但是在人看來－－以色列卻完全不值得被愛，因為她自甘墮

落。但是身為丈夫的耶和華仍不放棄她，繼續愛她，希望她們歸向神，好似神對以色列

人恒久的愛一樣。

我們與神的關係似乎也是這樣。祂愛我們，不是因為我們聖潔可愛，我們的情形正相反

，這是神所知道的，雖然祂給我們一切的福分，可惜我們沒有珍惜，我們常常離棄祂，

背叛不忠，最後祂不得已任憑我們，但在神的心中仍願意顯明憐憫恩慈，倘若我們若肯

悔改歸向神，祂就會對我們說：阿米——我的民，路哈瑪——你們必蒙憐憫。

執子之手，與子偕老：

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頌讚我主！願一切的榮耀完全歸與以色列的聖者直到永永遠遠！

我同意H appy、bwnj的说法，曾今何时我将自己当做那个淫妇，当主向我说我不定你的罪，起来去吧，以后别犯了，我的眼眶里全是泪，我真的很感动，我暗暗地说主啊，对不起，我错了，求你原谅，我不会再犯了，求你相信我。当时的那个心情相信只有那个淫妇知道。

现在的教会只有规条，太过严厉，除名圣经里记载了吗？只有赶出啊！赶出给了别人机会，他可以再回来；可是除名等于就是将他与神完全的隔绝开了，而且是人为的。太可怕了！

神说他是爱，他是神，是末后的审判者，不是人，而且他喜爱怜悯胜于献祭，否则我们这些人造就下去了，包括自以为义 的。为什么我们不能拿出我们的爱心去关怀他、帮助他、劝勉他继续留在教会里，说不定神。。。。。。！我们不要代替神就行了。

被除名的人.仍可來聚會，教會還是會勸他向神悔改，但在教會要低調一些，要謙卑，因為不知道主是否赦免。以往教會的除名也有誤判的，目前台灣教會趨向保守，好像若會影響其它信徒，才會除名，例如職務人員犯姦淫，到處騙錢且被法院判刑確定的....
我們教會曾出現被除名兩次的烏龍事件，她因騙台灣很多教會信徒的錢，又被判刑確定，所以被除名，但不久後負責人發現她之前已因姦淫被除名過。她現在又在教會聚會，我們也跟她點頭示意，但還是要注意她接觸慕道者或新信徒，不能再發生騙錢事件！
您說除名是將他與神隔絕是錯的，只有罪才會使人和神隔絕，所以保羅也希望犯姦淫的人要悔改（林後12：21），但沒有說是否會被主赦免。總之，得救是個人和神之間的關係，悔改是所有犯罪的惟一解藥！

happy,

您可知道tjc的除名理论基础就是“在地上捆绑，在天上也捆绑；在地上释放，在天上也释放”，是先地上后天上。天上的神必须尊重地上的除名决议。按照“顺服原则”，除名错了也得尊重，信徒不该质疑，神也得尊重。神哪天起意要原谅那个犯罪被除名的人，一定得先通过异象异梦或者直接说话知会相关负责人，让地上“先释放”，他才好释放。

您的发言不可不慎啊！我是觉得您也在攻击除名制度，小心杨XX就是镜子！

Happy

你说的情况是台湾，而我说的是大陆，你对大陆有多少了解？我们这里有不少的信徒或传道被除名，原因有不服从长执会或乱扣帽子的，有因真的出现问题的，但教会没劝勉、帮助或什么，当事人完全离开教会而进入邪教组织，教会事后也没有任何的说辞，这对吗？

他们都是除名而永远离开了，你或许会说哪天神会动工的，我也信，但在他们离开时，他们还带走了许多的信徒，这些人也有进邪教组织的，他们的以后怎么办？要知道爱心不只是我们教会有，有的派别爱心大的让你不敢想象。

唉！求神怜悯。

哥林多前書 5.11：「但如今我寫信給你們說，若有稱為弟兄是行淫亂的，或貪婪的，或拜偶像的，或辱罵的，或醉酒的，或勒索的，這樣的人不可與他相交，就是與他吃飯都不可。

The Warning of the Unfruitful Trees and their Outcomes

On September 24, 2012, in a morning prayer at dawn, a member was praying for a terminally ill and suffering brother. God responded to her prayer and said, "This person is an unfruitful tree that is taking up space."

That evening, she attended the church service. Before concluding prayer, the service leader announced and asked everyone to pray for the names of those members who were suffering greatly from diseases and accidents. Then she proceeded to pray for all those who were on the prayer request list. However, in the midst of prayer, God inspired her, "These people are all unfruitful trees taking up space. I want you all to see the end result of these members who are unfruitful trees that are taking up space uselessly. This is a warning to remind you to be alert and watchful."

On the early morning of September 28, 2012, a member was praying for other members who are suffering from tribulations. God said, "The spouse of that person is also an unfruitful tree that is wasting space."

On the early morning prayer of May 6, 2011, God spoke, "Do not be like worthless unfruitful tree that takes up useless space; otherwise, God will take away your life." (Confer Mt 21:18-20; Mk 11:12-14,20-21; Luke 13:6-9 ).

The Lord Jesus says, "I am the True Vine and My Father is the vinedresser. Every branch in Me that does not bear fruit He takes away; and every branch that bears fruit He prunes, that it may bear more fruit." (John 15:1-2 )

The Lord Jesus says, "If anyone does not abide in Me, he is cast out as a branch and is withered; and they gather them and throw them into the fire, and they are burned." (John 15:6 )

In 1997, there was the case of a member who just committed a serious sin. She was rebuked by God, "You have committed a deadly sin. In the future, you will have to pay a terrible price!”

Some years ago, there was a member who committed adultery.Then he became very ill. Church members came to pray for him, especially when he finally fell to unconsciousness.

On the last day, all of a sudden, the brother awoke. With unnatural strength, he jumped out of his bed, grabbed tightly onto the house wall with both arms, and then started to climb. As he is climbing, he frightfully cried, "I do NOT want to be here! It's too burning hot! There's fire everywhere! I don't want to be here anymore!"

Though the man screamed and climbed with all his might, he was unable to climb the smooth surface of the house wall. He will climb, then fall; climb, then fall. This happened over and over again. But he would not give up. He continued to climb.

Finally, he climbed one last time and then fell dead on the ground. When he fell, he screamed loudly with anguish. His cry sounded like a drawn out long pitiful scream, like the wailing of someone falling into a deep chasm, tapering off and fading away. It sounded so frightening to all the members there.

Once there was a member who saw a vision while attending a young sister's funeral. When the casket was being let down into the grave, she suddenly saw a vision of surging fire coming out of the burial pit to receive the casket. It was so horrible!

She immediately had this message from the Lord—this is where the dead will go, a place of fire and brimstone. She did not understand why. So she later prayed to God, “Why would that young sister be condemned? She was baptized since she was young in the True Jesus Church. Yet it looked like she was being subjected to an even worse punishment than the non-believers."

The Lord Jesus answered, "She did not cry to God for help." Why didn’t this person cry to God for help when she had trouble? If she had been baptized since she was young, wouldn’t she have known to cry to God saying, "Hallelujah! Lord, save me!"

Jesus said, "She did not cry for help," and he meant that this person did not pray to God for help, did not attend services, did not read the Bible, did not practice spiritual cultivation, did not serve God, did not keep the word of God, did not keep holy, did not live a godly life, did not live a life in accordance to God's will. Therefore, during the time of crisis, though she cried hard to God, God will not pay any attention to her. There was no way to help her.

There was once a funeral for a member which was conducted on October 27, 2006. Before the hymnal presentation, the nephew of the deceased read the final words of the deceased to everyone. These were the final words of his uncle, who continued to pray and repent to God, but God no longer listened to any of his prayers. So the uncle often wept and lamented his sad fate to his nephew, who wrote down his final words.

I do not have any road left to walk. I want to fly, but I have no wings. I want to walk, but no road is left. Miserable am I!

In the dark of the night, My cries flow unceasingly. My tears never cease; My bitterness knows no end.

I have committed a great sin! My prayers can no longer reach God. Though I keep praying, God will not hear.

May the Lord grant my final wish. May my children and grandchildren

Forever guard the word of God in their lives, To obey, to follow, and never to violate,

To never depart from His righteounessness and live forever in His presence.

How sad and remorseful are these final words! This is the voice of one who has committed a great sin against God, who has departed from the living God, who is now facing death and final judgment.

"Then I saw a great white throne and Him who sat on it, from whose face the earth and the heaven fled away. And there was found no place for them. And I saw the dead, small and great, standing before God, and books were opened. And another book was opened, which is the Book of Life. And the dead were judged according to their works, by the things which were written in the books. The sea gave up the dead who were in it, and Death and Hades delivered up the dead who were in them. And they were judged, each one according to his works. Then Death and Hades were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death. And anyone not found written in the Book of Life was cast into the lake of fire.” (Revelation 20:11-15 NKJV)